Monday 4 June 2012

JUST FOR TODAY



       
       Just for today I will try to live through this day only and not tackle my whole life problem at once. I can do something for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep it up for a lifetime.
        Just for today I will be happy. This assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln said, that "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be."
  Just for today I will adjust myself to what is, and not try to adjust everything to my own desires. I will take my "luck" as it comes.
  Just for today I will try to strengthen my mind. I will study. I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration.
  Just for today I will exercise my soul in three ways. I will do somebody a good turn and not get found out: If anybody knows of it, it will not count. I will do at least two things I don‘t want to do—just for exercise. I will not show anyone that my feelings are hurt: they may be hurt, but today I will not show it.
  Just for today I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can, dress becomingly, talk low, act courteously, criticize not one bit, and try not to improve or regulate anybody but myself.
  Just for today I will have a program, I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. I will save myself from two pests: hurry and indecision.
  Just for today I will have a quiet half hour all by myself and relax. During this half hour, sometime, I will try to get a better perspective of my life.
  Just for today I will be unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid to enjoy what is beautiful, and to believe that as I give to the world, so the world will give to me.



 人总会遇到挫折,会有低潮,会有不被人理解的时候,会有要低声下气的时候,这些时候恰恰是人生最关键的时候。在这样的时刻,我们需要耐心等待,满怀信心地去等待,相信,生活不会放弃你,命运不会抛弃你。
如果耐不住寂寞,你就看不到繁华。
我想要的........是不是太完美了?

 总以为,安静地做好自己的事就不会招惹不必要的麻烦。可是很多时候,你不去招惹别人,别人也会欺负到你头上。你以为忍让就能让事情过去,可是别人就会以为你好欺负。记住,不要当一个烂好人,当你觉得受到委屈的时候要勇敢地说“不!”,别让自己懦弱,也别一味地退让,要学会反击
我有时真的以为是这样,可是我想不是...

 宁愿为自己做过的后悔,也不愿为自己没做的遗憾。

学会知而不言,因为言多必失;学会自我解脱,因为这样才能自我超越;学会一个人静静思考,因为这样才能让自己更清醒、明白;学会用心看世界,因为这样才会看清人的本来面目;学会放下,因为只有放下了才能重新开始;学会感恩,因为拥有一颗感恩的心能帮助我们在逆境中寻求希望,在悲观中寻求快乐。


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